Empowering Truth. Exposing Toxicity. Reclaiming Peace.
They Didn't Break Me. They Forged Me.
Motivational Speaker. Author. Father. Coach. Retired Civil Rights Lawyer. Activist. Recovered Alcoholic.
Navigating an Increasingly Toxic World
Helping others reclaim and maintain their God-given light and inner peace—no matter what happens in life.
Content Platforms That Make A Difference.
Helping others see through and navigate the darkness all around us
Helping others reclaim and maintain their God-given light—no matter what
This is about inner peace. Redemption. Empowerment.
Removing toxic people from your life.
Understanding spiritual battles in a world science can’t fully explain.
Where lived experience meets research meets unwavering faith in God.
THE SUPER EMPATH
Forged in the Fire - My Life with Narcissists
“For those who walked through darkness and refuse to let their light be dimmed.”
I was raised by them. Married them. Faced them across 25 years
of high-stakes courtrooms as a civil rights attorney in Texas.
Then I did what most survivors never do: I researched the why.
A lifetime of research into psychology, spirituality, neuroscience,
and the leading experts in the field.
Lived experience + extensive research + unwavering faith in God.
This book is about redemption. Empowerment. Wholeness.
Finding inner peace. Seeing through the dark.
Reclaiming your God-given light—no matter what.
My light was never dimmed. It got brighter.
And I can teach you to see through the darkness.
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Multiple Platforms. One Message.
ABOUT ALFONSO
My Greatest Strength Isn't The Light I Carry. It's My Ability To See In The Dark.
A lifetime of spiritual battles across every domain— family, romantic relationships, 25 years in high-stakes courtrooms.
Raised by narcissists. Married them. Dated them. Had personal and professional relationships with them. Faced them as adversaries and judges as a civil rights attorney in Texas.
I walked through valleys that would break most people.
My light was never dimmed. It got brighter.
Then I researched the why. A lifetime of study into psychology,
spirituality, neuroscience, and faith. Not to replace experience
with theory—to expand it.
Lived experience + extensive research + unwavering faith in God = the foundation of this work.
I emerged with something most spend their whole lives searching for: inner peace.
Single dad of 3. Notre Dame alum. 20 years in Houston.
Retired attorney turned author and speaker.
Now I help others find their inner peace, see through the darkness, and become so strong and powerful within themselves that they become immune and unavailable to toxic people and situations in their lives. people from their lives.
SPEAKING
Book Alfonso to Speak
Real talk. Real experience. Real transformation
Understanding emotional intelligence and spiritual discernment in a world full of manipulation.
Finding and keeping the most valuable asset in the world when chaos surrounds you.
What 25 years in high-stakes litigation taught about reading people and protecting yourself.
A spiritual journey through adversity. Finding redemption and purpose in the ashes.
